The Shine Theory

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vancouver style blog, vancouver fashion blog, alexandra grant, to vogue or bust, canadian fashion blog, vancouver fashion, neon pink, rachel mara blouse, club monaco skirt, tieks ballerina flats, rebecca minkoff bag, bfrend bracelet, poshlocket wish bone necklace, summer style, neon on neon
vancouver style blog, vancouver fashion blog, alexandra grant, to vogue or bust, canadian fashion blog, vancouver fashion, neon pink, rachel mara blouse, club monaco skirt, tieks ballerina flats, rebecca minkoff bag, bfrend bracelet, poshlocket wish bone necklace, summer style, neon on neon
vancouver style blog, vancouver fashion blog, alexandra grant, to vogue or bust, canadian fashion blog, vancouver fashion, neon pink, rachel mara blouse, club monaco skirt, tieks ballerina flats, rebecca minkoff bag, bfrend bracelet, poshlocket wish bone necklace, summer style, neon on neon
vancouver style blog, vancouver fashion blog, alexandra grant, to vogue or bust, canadian fashion blog, vancouver fashion, neon pink, rachel mara blouse, club monaco skirt, tieks ballerina flats, rebecca minkoff bag, bfrend bracelet, poshlocket wish bone necklace, summer style, neon on neon
vancouver style blog, vancouver fashion blog, alexandra grant, to vogue or bust, canadian fashion blog, vancouver fashion, neon pink, rachel mara blouse, club monaco skirt, tieks ballerina flats, rebecca minkoff bag, bfrend bracelet, poshlocket wish bone necklace, summer style, neon on neon
vancouver style blog, vancouver fashion blog, alexandra grant, to vogue or bust, canadian fashion blog, vancouver fashion, neon pink, rachel mara blouse, club monaco skirt, tieks ballerina flats, rebecca minkoff bag, bfrend bracelet, poshlocket wish bone necklace, summer style, neon on neon

Flats c/o Tieks, Club Monaco skirt, blouse c/o Rachel Marabfrend bracelet,
ring c/o Social Experiment, Rebecca Minkoff bag, necklace c/o Poshlocket

The sad truth is that pretty much every girl alive has had another girl (or a pack of girls, even worse) dislike them for no apparent reason. Especially in an industry that’s as cutthroat as fashion, it almost becomes an accepted and regular occurrence – hate comments are just something you have to roll with, weird ice-outs just need to be taken in stride, etc, etc.

Fortunately, I’ve been pretty lucky to be largely surrounded by amazing women. I was raised with two sisters who have strong and awesome personalities, girlfriends who are as supportive as they are ambitious (and any who weren’t aren’t part of my life anymore) and a great role model like my mum, who is incredibly smart, successful and a real beauty after four kids if I may say so myself (and strong…she kicks my ass in the gym). I also have a network of amazing industry friends who I’ve been lucky enough to collaborate with and grow with as our blogs/careers develop. Yes, part of having these women in my life is luck, but a lot of it is intentional too (other than my family, that’s just luck).

Personally, I want to be surrounded by strong, supportive and inspiring women because it pushes me to grow in a healthy way myself. A great read on this topic is Shine Theory: Why Powerful Women Make the Greatest Friends – definitely worth checking out. Life’s too short to not be surrounded by incredible people who inspire you, and conversely, to deal with people who bring you down.

And speaking of shine, even if someone ever does treat you less-than-amazingly, just wear neons and a bright lipstick. It always does the trick. This Rachel Mara hot pink blouse has been a summer favourite of mine, and with these neon Tieks and my favourite bfrend bracelet, this bright-on-bright-on-bright look is a really fitting ode to the end of the summer.

What women inspire you in your life, and how do you do away or deal with the haters that exist out there?

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13 Comments

  1. 8.20.13
    Mounette said:

    this pink fluo blouse is so beautifull, I like it!
    Kiss
    Aurélie
    http://www.lespetitesbullesdemavie.blogspot.com

  2. 8.20.13
    Sarah said:

    I also have a wonderful mom and sister, so great in life to have strong, powerful and encouraging women around. Its unfortunate that women can be so awful to one another, great post.
    Also, love the pop of neon!

    Sarah
    http://www.sarahjustinestyle.blogspot.com

  3. 8.20.13

    That's so wonderful you have so many amazing women in your life!! I really wish I had sisters, don't get me wrong I love my brothers but they are a little lacking when it comes to emotional understanding sometimes.
    LOVE the bright pink blouse on you, and the neon flats are so perfect here. So fantastic on you!!
    xJennaD

  4. 8.20.13
    Emma said:

    Great pops of neon with the top and flats
    emmastyleguide.blogspot.com

  5. 8.20.13

    I love this look, the skirt is adorable. I love it with the pops of neon!

    http://simpleeasystyle.blogspot.com/

  6. 8.20.13

    I agree! Strong woman make the best friends! It's the women who have ambition and who know who they are that I consider the nicest people. They don't have to be mean to get what they want and that's something to admire.

    I love your whole outfit! Neons and neutrals always makes me smile!
    ~Sara

  7. 8.20.13
    Nikki said:

    This was such a pleasant post to read Alexandra! Thank you. I've been brought down many tomes, just because I am a redhead. I hated my hair, but grew to love it as I, more and more, began to stand up against what others were saying about me. I'm still not entirely there… bt I am trying.

    I also love your outfit! Colorful and fun, just the way we should dress in summer! xo

  8. 8.20.13

    The key is to stay strong in all the situations & no one has the power to hurt you unless you allow them to.Cheers to girl power XX

    I love how you have juxtaposed gray with neons.

    Love
    Bhawna
    Muse

  9. 8.20.13
    Stefani said:

    What a pretty blouse! Such an amazing look!
    xx

  10. 8.20.13
    Hannah said:

    Love the pops of neon!

    Champagne Lifestyle on a Beer Budget

  11. 8.23.13

    Lovely outfit and great smile!!:)
    I'd love if you checked out my blog too!

    xx Camille

    http://www.fashiontartare.com/

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